Couples Coaching

“The quality of your life ultimately depends on the quality of your relationships.”

Esther Perel

Hi! I'm Lane.

 I quit my corporate tech job in 2020 to pursue a more meaningful life for myself. Today, through coaching I help couples and individuals with the matter closest to their hearts: love.

As a JRNI Certified Coach, I bring research-backed, ICF approved techniques and knowledge to our sessions. Additionally, I've completed Level 1 and Level 2 of the Gottman Institute's Couples Therapy Method, which serves as the basis for much of my couples coaching. My mission is to apply my training to empower people to find more adventure, joy, and meaning in the most personal parts of their lives. 

Outside of coaching, I am a writer, painter, and a lover of wild places. I also believe, when you're able, it is imperative to give back, which is why I've decided to donate 10% of my proceeds to OneTreePlanted, a non-profit organization dedicated to reforestation. 

Couples Coaching

Falling in love may feel involuntary, but staying in love is a choice. In couples coaching, we work to develop a proactive partnership philosophy. Proactive partnership is an expression I use to describe the daily practice of intentionally turning towards your partner, working to build a strong foundation, and designing more joy, romance, and intimacy into your relationship. Instead of waiting for shit to hit the fan, I believe it's better to invest in your partnership upfront. 


Just a few of the techniques and ideas we will explore together include: 1) How to have a stress-reducing conversation, 2) How to have more productive conflict, and 3)How to build sustainable fondness and admiration systems

Singles Coaching

Singlehood is not a disease, or a lower social standing. Singlehood is a precious time in your life ask the big questions like, 

"What brings me joy?" and, "What type of life do I want to create for myself?"

One aspect of singles coaching is working through these questions together and empowering you to be the architect of your own life. 

When you are ready to seek partnership, we begin the dating process. Ultimately, my goal is to help you find an incredible partner, while treasuring the most important relationship of all, the one with yourself.   



"Lane’s Proactive Partnership approach has helped my relationship with my wife rise to a new level. I particularly enjoyed the thoughtful exercises and games she created to guide us into deeper discussions about our relationship. Lane created a safe, accepting, supportive environment for me to discuss my innermost thoughts, facilitating more open and honest communication with my wife. Her infectious passion for the space shines through in her work and I highly recommend her to anyone who wants a stronger, happier relationship with their significant other."

—  Mark G. (Proactive Partnership)

10% of all proceeds goes to charity!

Though I couldn't imagine being more fulfilled by any other career, I recognize there are more pressing issues our world faces than relationship discord. That's why I've decided to donate ten percent of all proceeds, whether from coaching or my art sales, to OneTreePlanted, a non-profit environmental organization, to aid in their vital reforestation efforts. Every dollar donated results in one tree planted! 


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